The Mobilization Ceremony In Bend


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Deployment

So we are now 1 month into this very long deployment. Me and the girls are starting to adjust to not having Troy around, but the pain of missing him is great. It is so hard to go to bed alone with no one to hold, and on those rough days it's hard no being able to just pick up the phone and call him. I know that we will endure, and that absence makes the heart grow fonder, but by golly I think I'm fond enough of Troy. Shoot we celebrated our 9th anniversary the day after his departure. This was our first anniversary apart, and my second birthday without him. It is those special days that make me miss him the most. The girls and I had a lot of fun this Easter, but it was sad that Troy missed it. In partnership with Operation HomeFront we held the first ever 1249th Battalion Easter Egg Hunt at Heritage park. The kids all had a blast look for eggs, and the parents seems to enjoy themselves too. The first of many holidays without daddy, I have very big shoes to fill, but I'm determined to make sure that every holiday is celebrated together just me and the girls. We will make it thru this long separation.

Is this rollercoaster ride ever going to end?

So we were informed on Monday afternoon that Troy will be leaving for the deployment next monday. One weeks notice! We have scrambled to get all of his gear together and get everything on the packing list. To make matters worse I've had to work all week, so I have had very little time to spend with him in his last week at home. We will be leaving on Sunday morning to Bend to the unit that he is deploying with, and I will return on Monday after he leaves.

I promised myself that I wouldn't cry infront of him so that he knows that me and the girls will be okay, but I can't even begin to explain just how hard of a task that truly is. When I look into his eyes I just want to bawl! 18 months is such a long time! I can't imagine what it is going to be like having to sleep alone for that long. I treasure the fact that every night when we go to bed Troy cuddles up with me and holds me until I go to sleep. How will I sleep without him here? It is like I'm walking thru fog. I'm going thru the actions, but I'm not there. I feel like my heart is breaking just knowing that I am going to have to say goodbye in a couple of days. I knew he was going to go, but it was sureal. It wasn't reality until Monday night, and now it is a nightmare. I can't sleep because of the nightmares, and at work I'm so distracted. All I want to do is be at home with my family.

Please pray for my family! Right now I don't know how to be strong for Troy and the girls, when I feel like I'm dying inside. I know that we will get thru this, but I'm not sure how. All the training has gone out the window. It was so much easier when it wasn't my family. I know that this separation will bring us closer together. And the reality is that I will be a better FRG Coordinator because of the deployment. But right now, I'm wondering if it is really worth it. How do you say goodbye to someone who is part of you? How can I tuck my kids into bed each night and tell them that Daddy will come home soon, when I'm not so sure myself. How do I explain to them that this is Daddy's job, and he has to go and be a soldier and an American hero? How do I tell them that he is fighting for the freedom that the Government is trying to take away from us?

So many questions and no answers! Please just keep us in your thoughts and prayers because right now that is the only thing that will get us thru this! I know that God is in control and he has a plan, but right now I have no idea what that plan is, and I really don't like it!

Thank you for reading my rambings!

How time flies...

The deployment is fast approaching, with only one month of preparation left. There are so many things left to be done, and so little time to complete it in. It has been a challenge juggling my chaiotic work schedule, getting things in order before he leaves, and finding time to spend together as a family. I worry that the girls are suffering because there are only so many hours in the day, and so many of those hours are spent away from them at work. I wonder how they will adapt to the change of their dad's departure, and how I will react to being a single mom again for such a long period of time. It is a big change, and I will make the best of the situation, but what will I do on those lonely nights, and long days without him here? I know that I have a good support system in place, but I feel like this is something I have to do on my own. It is my responsibility to care for the girls, to pay the bills, to clean the house and to maintain some normalcy for the girls. That is a lot for one person to do all by themself. Please keep us in your thoughts and prayers as I know that we are truly going to need it.